What do you love most about yourself?

What do you love most about yourself?

How we feel about ourselves can massively impact a relationship. Let me give you an example.

I know someone, let’s call her Jane, who has very low self-confidence. Her whole life she has been told she isn’t good enough, she isn’t able to do things, she has to do as she is told, she isn’t valued, she is selfish for wanting to look out for herself, she does everything wrong.

When I first met Jane she was bubbly, confident, happy and outgoing. Over the last 20 years, I’ve seen more and more how these thoughts and words from others in her life have caused her to become a shadow of her former self. She is living in misery and unhappiness. She can’t see what she has to offer the world or the people around her.

This plays out in her relationship, especially at the start. She would always question how much her boyfriend actually loved her. She couldn’t accept he loved her as much as he claimed (because deep down she didn’t believe it was possible and she doesn’t love herself that much).

Woman sitting with her knees tucked in and her head on her knees, feeling sad
Photo by Victoria Rose of Flaunt and Flourish

Her insecurity plays out a lot if her boyfriend even talks to another woman (innocently) or looks at another way (again, not in a pervy way, but just a look), which turns into a massive fight. She feels rejected, unloved and wants his attention 100% of the time.

Jane isn’t a bad person, she is just dealing with her inner demons. And those demons are getting triggered in her relationship, causing her to feel and behave in a certain way.

Jane is currently working on her self-esteem and self-confidence and dealing with those demons. Slowly she is learning to love herself. She is learning to accept that someone loves her as much as they claim. Bit by bit she is taking control of how she feels and how she thinks and what she does.

So, back to my original question, what do you most love about yourself?

If you are ready to change how you feel about yourself and explore how your self-esteem is affecting your relationships. then The Warrior Love Programme will change everything for you. Change how you feel about yourself and change your relationships so they can be amazing. 

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